The memorial service at the Church held in honor of our dear brother-in-law, Harry, was a bitter sweet reminder once more of the brevity of life and the hope we have. It was an old fashioned service interwoven with the vitality of young grandchildren giving a last tribute or recital on the piano, a thoughtfully written email sent from abroad to be read to the family and a life story told while scanned images gave glimpses of those stages of life on the screen. Music and messages, in German as well as in English lifted our souls to look on Him who gave and will give again.
Not having heard a German message for a very long time, I was intrigued by the beauty of the language and how the truth I know in my head, sounded in my heart language. It was said that when Harry was asked what scripture he would want read at his memorial - without skipping a beat he had quoted Romans 8:1, "Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus." The legacy he left for his family was one of assurance in his destiny.
After the service we all stepped into our vehicles and joined the long line-up of almost bumper to bumper cars, hazard lights flashing, to follow the hearse to the cemetery.
It is a feeling hard to describe . . . the one of sitting in one of these cars, united in a procession to escort the family as they usher their beloved's body to his final resting place. Other drivers can pass on by or wait impatiently . . . but the motorcade is intact, headed through town together.
The pallbearers, brought out the coffin and set it down on top of the place
where it would be lowered into the ground.
A heart-quickening silent moment of truth for young and old.
Meanwhile, we as family and friends gathered around in unanimous support
of the ones closest and dearest to him on this earth.
The pastor once more reminded us that this is not the end of the story
as he spoke of a day when the Lord Jesus returns
and the dead in Christ will arise to be forever with Him.
Yes... this is the hope we profess, based on the prophecy . . . that . . .
"He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away. He who was seated on the throne said, "I am making everything new! Then he said, "Write this down, for there words are trustworthy and true." Revelation 21 : 3 - 5

