Fast forward about 10 years. My H still loves to tease me about my apprehension when we switched to a push button phone. I was concerned that our preschoolers would not learn how to use a dial. What if they’d happen to come face to face with only a dial phone in an emergency?
Ah … yes… I had no clue as to the changes that would be coming, slowly at first, and then picking up speed so that now it’s my kids concerned about me keeping up.
A few weeks ago, he almost had to drag me to the phone place to pick a new one. It was overwhelming to see the choices and terribly intimidating to have to ask how to use a particular phone. What happened to a normal phone? You know, the kind you just make a call with? I would have been happy with that, but the plan covered much more. And wouldn’t you know it, as soon as the kids knew it was in my hands, a message came up. I had no choice but to try to get my stubby fingers to hit the exact right part of each letter and hit send.
Kind of like when I hit a certain publish button almost three years ago . . .and life has never been the same.
I’m learning strange spastic hand movements that make words and pictures grow or disappear and re-appear. I tap a space, and letters come out of nowhere . . . a word, and a new page comes up!
It’s a toy that has me feeling a little unsure of what I’m committing to just yet. How much am I willing to change about the way I view this fast paced, let everyone know, instant results, way of life? I’ve been accustomed to the idea that if you are home, you are available . . . but if you are not home, you are busy shopping, at the dentist, working on something, spending time with a friend, out on a walk, away from the feeling of being needed. I kind of like it that way.But, on the other hand, along with allowing this gadget a bit of a chance comes a strange feeling of being connected . . . when your phone buzzes and there is a message that simply shows someone’s thinking about you . . . when sitting down in a waiting room and being able to go online in a quick instant . . when you can capture a moment with the camera and send it on . . . I’m learning to like parts of this new feeling and will probably be okay with it, with some moderations.
And, funny thing, with this phone I can also make a call … even though at this point I still have to think about what to do when it rings.

