"There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under heaven." Ecclesiastes 3:1

Tuesday, October 31, 2017

Leafing October

I would be remiss not to share a few photos 
of this most beautiful time
that reminds me of the season I'm in.


Whether walking in the rain


or playing in the dry, fallen leaves





God's beauty in nature calls attention to itself


by displaying one final "hurrah!"


before stepping aside for the secrets of the next.




With Anne of Green Gables I have to say,
"I'm so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers."
(Lucy Montgomery)

Friday, October 27, 2017

Come Away With Me


Last week, while it was raining cats and dogs at home,
we were far away in a quiet and relaxing B & B  across the ocean.
This was the same place we enjoyed two years ago.


We woke up late to the sound of breakfast quietly being served 
on the patio below us.


and went down to eat with this view beside our table.


After breakfast  we walked a couple of blocks toward this gorgeous beach.


The sand and the tide coming and going
have a way of reminding us of the beauty of creation,
God's faithfulness
and things that stay the same.


This photo was taken on our anniversary.


During the day I read ...
he read and continued to take calls.
This is a time in life when we often talk about how to get to the next stage.
It seems, over the years business has become more time consuming -
more so than when we were raising kids -
culminating into the big questions on how to slow down.
It's a "new to us" season in life ...
further along  than the empty nest season.


Dinners with an ocean view


and walks back to our room ...
allowed us to realize that with all the changes in life,
we are still best friends.


And after all is said and done,
I hesitated to write this post because,
even as I'm once again back to the reality
of buckling little bodies into car seats
and cares about aging parents ...
things I can control and things I can't,
I know this could all be and sound like an unrealistic dream.

Friday, October 20, 2017

Cooking and Crafting Cousins

The best thing about having these cousins over 
is the excitement they show when I finally find a day that works for all of us.
It begins with the after school pick up ... and keeps building up.
I was parked at Natalie's school before the school bell went
and she was literally one of the first kids out!
We took the shortest route to the elementary school
and caught Lacey and Teddy 
coming down the hall toward us.
Kindergartners are to be released to an adult,
so I'm not sure how Lacey qualified, 
but she must have seen me coming. 
All three had to sit in the small back of my car -
just because they wanted to sit together.

 They mixed ...
 and licked ...
 and spread.
 They chose their tips 
 and had fun with the icing tube.
 Their smiles tell all. 
If you're a long time visitor, this post may look familiar
and that is because it seemed they wanted to re-create 
a time they had with Tehya and Makenna last summer.
 While the cakes were in the oven we worked on a simple craft . . .
Natalie found the idea on line and thought it would be fun to make 
rugs for their dolls.
They cut their desired shape on felt and glued on  mini pom poms.
 I thought I'd let Teddy try it with regular white glue,
but it did not hold, so we had to switch  to the glue gun
which scared her a bit. 
In the end they each had their own uniquely patterned 
little rug to take home.
But before going home, we ordered pizza delivery
and ate dinner while watching an episode of Little House on the Prairie.

It's simple joys like these  ...
they won't go on forever ...
but maybe the memories will always bring a smile. 

Thursday, October 12, 2017

Count Your Many Blessings

 ... the blessing of a beautiful day and time to go for a ride.
... the blessing of being together ...
I mean just him and me ... 
I love this guy and I know I take him for granted ...
 ... the blessing of being able to walk ...
 ... the blessing of a friend who lets me come and cut flowers in her garden ...
 ... the blessing of a house to make a home ...
... the blessing of setting a table ..
 and the anticipation that goes with it ...
 ... the blessing of cousins ...
 ... the blessing of a little boy new to the family this year ...
 ... the blessing of family around the table ...
... and the blessing of family far away - a blessing to others.

Friday, October 6, 2017

50 Years in Canada


This year as we celebrate Canada's 150th birthday,
I planted a Canadian Celebration (fire and ice) Dahlia in June

I am one who also remembers Canada's Centennial year,
as the year we came to Canada.

On this weekend, October 7, 1967
our family of five landed in Toronto
where my mom's newly wed brother and beautiful wife met us.

I remember so well that their wedding gifts were barely unpacked 
and they put us up in their home with what they had.
We children slept on the shiny hardwood living room floor 
on new acrylic, satin trimmed blankets
that slipped out from underneath us while we slept. 

But we were with family!
While this new country intrigued us children in many ways,
it was a dream come true for my dad
and somewhat fearsome for my mom.

After a short stay, we got on the train to British Columbia.
The West Coast, was where my dad wanted to put down roots
because of the mountains.



On this train ride we got a good idea of how big this country was.
Looking out of the window, it was the first time I saw snow.
We arrived in Mission on October 25th
where my mom's uncle and aunt picked us up at the train station
and took us to their lovely home in Abbotsford.
Uncle John and my grandfather (mom's dad) were brothers
who got separated when families left Russia.
My grandfather went to Paraguay as a young man
and his brother to Canada, 
getting married and raising their families apart.
Uncle John and Tante Tina included us in their family 
gatherings, with gifts to open along with their own grandchildren
and often visited us in those early years.
The above photo was taken on one of their visits
to our first home in Vancouver.



My dad, an accountant, knew he'd have to be willing to do 
something else to put bread on the table.
He went to Vancouver to look for work
and was hired by a friend to install furnaces.
(This friend is now my step-dad, Abe)
My dad had saved enough money from the sale of
our beautiful home in Brazil to make a down-payment on the above house.
We moved into this new home in Canada in November.
Even as a ten-year-old, I loved the quaint old rooms
and can still visualize the tiny portico,
leading to the living room, then the dining room with a bedroom to the left
and the kitchen in the back.
The kitchen cupboards were painted baby blue.
Off to the left of the living room was a stairway
leading to two kids' bedrooms with slanted ceilings.
It wasn't long and my dad came home with the first car we'd ever had.
It was old, but beautiful to us and we were so proud of him.

Dad worked at installing furnaces for maybe a year and
then decided to take night courses at UBC
to get his accreditation as an accountant in Canada.
He continued working during the day.
Through connections with others who had come from South America
we ended up in a church where we made the best of friends.

I have been so thankful for my dad's dream
and hard work to get us here,
and mom's willingness to fit in.
Next week also marks the day he would be 85
If only he could see us now . . .
his "old" children,
his 10 beloved grandkids, almost all in their 30's, like he was in 1967,
along with 22 great-grandchildren - who did not get to know him!

Till we meet again, 
Thank you, dad!

Wednesday, September 27, 2017

Reminiscing

On September 24th, six years ago, 
I picked my mom up from the hairdresser's and took her home to get ready for her groom.
A few hours later there came the bitter sweet moment 
when my H and I stood at her apartment door, ringing her name,
the name she'd had for 55 years, for the last time.
We took her to the church and parked by a door away from the main entrance,
in case someone would want to see the bride before it was time.
It was a beautiful wedding -
two families coming together in a way we never would have imagined -
filled with hope for their best!


This past weekend I had a spur of the moment "moment"
when I realized we needed to celebrate. even just around a small table.


Monika and I put together a simple Faspa
and Mom and Abe were thrilled.


In such a short time they have become two peas in a pod ...
with a dependency on each other that is hard to fathom,
even though now it is Mom who has become more dependent.

He listens for her getting up at night 
and during the day takes her along wherever he goes ...
letting her think it's because he wants her near.
He lays out her clothes, prepares food alongside her
and does the laundry that she is oblivious to.
He keeps her on track as to what day it is,
what time it is, and when to take her medication.
He keeps her from going to bed much too early
by playing recorded music shows  ...
which she takes in with delight.

We do not know how long we have 
but we know that time is slipping away,
that things are constantly changing.
Our conversations are limited
but they are possible.
Mom still puts her arms around me
smiles in my face
and says that when we get together 
she feels this closeness - a longing fulfilled.

They leave, holding on to each other,
his cane steadying him so he can steady her.
He reminds her to put on her seat belt
and they are off one more time,
feeling celebrated ...
choosing not to think about tomorrow.

Yet in a strange reversal of roles,
 the thinking is happening here.
May God's love and grace lead the way.