Deja Vu and Reality

Tehya, Paeton and Makenna moved in with us for part of this week while mom and dad were away.
In this unusual reality, my thoughts have been with younger moms
and how their days play themselves out.
I decided that if I were a young mom, I would not find time to blog
 There's a whole lot of things I probably would not be doing.
Having said that, I wish to tell any moms out there in the midst of raising your children,
it's going to be okay. On days when it feels like you are forever
picking things off the floor
wiping counters
folding tossed clothing
running the bath
cleaning up the bath
moving shoes around
filling backpacks
fixing messy ponytails
listening
comforting
thinking ahead
picking up milk again . . .
with no one really noticing


 

 

or applauding the hero you are when
 they are called to dinner,
when they find their matched up clean socks in the basket,
when you watch from the side at a steamed up indoor pool,
when you remind them to practice piano . . .
help them find the supplies for a school project . . .
 cheer them on from under an umbrella in a cross country run,
take them to Sunday school and clubs
and camp and youth . . .

. . . let me assure you, this is not forever.

One day you will watch them walk across that stage
and you will cry and you will be proud and know you did the best you could.
You will have helped them become the heroes of the next generation . . .
and then there will be time for all the things you wish you could be doing.

For today and every tomorrow, know that what matters is what God sees.
I look back in wonder and thank Him for His grace.
 

The kids were handed off and my hat changed . . .
We have been preparing two menus to cook up for the kitchen theatre
at the West Coast Women's Show
The first is on Friday at two
the second one Saturday at noon.

Much of the rest of the time we'll be hanging around the beautiful Winks booth.
Two years ago they were excited to sell our first cookbook at the show . . .
this weekend they are bringing in a number of boxes of the Celebrations book as well.
As you may know, all author royalties of this book go to the WASH program in Kenya
while Winks has committed their  profit to a charity on top of that.
We'll be happy to see all who can come!

 

Leaf Crunching on a Sunday Afternoon

 

 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Bathroom Makeover

The 1980's cabinet

and the 2010's  cabinet.

I cleaned our the entire old cabinet with a trash bag close at hand.
Sometimes you have to wonder why you've kept something for so long.
One example:
I like having my make-up off the counter but easy to get to.
Many moons ago, I concocted an organizing scheme, using an assortment
of those thin plastic cookie liners found in a bag of cookies, such as oreos.
These liners, along with a few card box lids, worked great!
I could have kept them for another few decades and my girls would have had a good laugh
when their time comes to clean out my cabinets.
 

But no more! I found this beautiful vanity organizer
(don't you just love the name?)

and wouldn't you know it? It fit in the new drawer, like it was made to order!

For bigger personal items, I use a couple of low Ziploc containers.
His and hers.

Now I'm just waiting for someone to tell me they prefer the first cabinet
and why did we change it up?

 . . . for everything a season . . .
 

Anniversary Makeover

From this . . .

 

to this . . .
Although the bedroom chandelier is a recent dream come true
there is a much more significant dream come true that we celebrate today.
I chose the following picture because of what I noticed in the background.

On October 18, 1975
he, a handsome young groom in his dark brown suit and bow tie,
and I, a blushing young bride in my sheer long sleeved wedding dress,
promised our love for a lifetime.

We prayed the Lord's unfailing love rest upon us
even as we put our hope in Him.
Psalm 33: 22



Today we see how His unfailing love has surely been with us
and will continue to be . . . all the days of our lives.
Shania Twain's love song lyrics echo the melody in my heart.

Happy Anniversary to my H.
You'll always be the one.
 

More Thanksgiving

While we had a few extended family dinners over the weekend . . .
we still have not had turkey.
So, it's on the menu for tonight
to celebrate a belated thanksgiving and an early Birthday for Kristal.

While the girls and their families were planning to meet Ben and Kari in Edmonton,
this past weekend, they kept asking us to go as well . . .
however, we had a few home improvement projects going and
really liked the idea of them having some time on their own.

Isn't it every parent's dream that their kids grow up being friends?
It was a big sadness for me when they were all living in different countries . . .
wondering how the in-laws and cousins would ever get to know each other.
So, you can guess how thankful I am for these past two years.



I'm posting this photo that came via text message
with the feeling that they may have bet on whether I'd post it.
Here they are all in their thirties squished into a telephone booth at West Edmonton Mall.
Why?
 

Because they knew I have a photo of them, in their teens, posing in the telephone booth
at the same Mall.
Boy, did it take me back to another season in my life!
Julene had just started college, Kristal Grade 11 and Ben Grade 8 . . .
and I realized with unbelief that I was still in my thirties when this photo was taken,
although barely.
Sigh . . . how the years go by!
So glad the three of them with their families could enjoy their weekend
while humouring me with my own trip down memory lane.
 

Thanksgiving at the Thiessen's

 

It was Monika and Bob's turn to host and

with our own kids away this weekend, we were a smaller group, so she decided to host in her home

instead of at the Lakehouse. She did such a beautiful job of creating an atmosphere of thanksgiving with her decor. I loved how she incorporated her Willow Tree figurines.

Somehow I did not get Bob into the photos, but he is surely there, always making sure people are welcomed and comfortable.

This year it was a lot about the new babies who arrived this summer and it was a lot of fun to
see the pride and the love shared within the family members.
It so happened, I pulled out my camera more often than I had intended,
so I will just invite you to scroll through the pics
and catch a glimpse of what the photos tell.

I think Mackenzie looks like her auntie Carmen did when she was a baby.

Darren and Chelsea are smiling because their girls are off playing on their own by now.


Grandma Carrie in love.

Katie with Anna . . . her dream come true.

Conversations and story time. 

Oma Monika in love.



Grampa Helmut and Gandma Carrie fussing.

Older cousins enthralled with auntie Naomi feeding Mackenzie.



And since the potato bar went over so well last year,

 

 we decided to repeat it . . .
 baked potatoes with chili, beef stew, a variety of toppings and salads.

Who knows, it may become tradition.
 

It is not unusual to find (Great) Opa Abe at the children's table.

Our newlyweds just celebrated two years.
They are still smiling.

The young adults table in deep conversation. 

Dessert time only had to be announced once.
Pumpkin Streusel cake

 

a variety of pies and chocolate zucchini muffins . . .

My cousin, Moni, who is her second year of studies here . . .
planning to go back to Paraguay when she is done.
Still smiling after doing a ton of dishes.

It was good to be together.
So much to be thankful for!